I Said Yes

As many of you know, 2017 is my #YearOfYes. Shonda Rhimes may have written the book, but the echo in my heart came before I ever even knew that. A year of redefining what it looks like to take care of myself first, so that I can ultimately fulfill the call on my life. The […]

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the good for the great

good {adverb}; well great {adverb}: excellently; very well good isn’t bad, right? right… we’re comfortable with good, right? we’re okay here. good isn’t risky. good doesn’t stretch us. good allows us to give and take a little when we see fit. good keeps us occupied enough to feel accomplished and needed, but not empty enough to feel […]

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Here’s to You

“The difference between successful people and others is how long they spend time feeling sorry for themselves.” -Barbara Corcoran Today is International Women’s Day. A day where women are celebrated. A day where courage, endurance, integrity, grit, boldness, risk, and tenacity are not only acknowledged, but encouraged and respected. The fact of the matter is, […]

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Dear Future Me…

Dear Future Me… I hope you start off reading this with pride in your heart and a skip in your step. You made it. You might not feel like you have yet, but you have. I prayed for you to get where you are. I dreamed, wished, chanted, screamed and went through a few tear-stained […]

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Why I’m Single

A question I’m asked if not once, at least twice a week – on average. And again that’s average. “How are you still single?”  “Why haven’t you found anyone?” “What are you looking for?” And I get it. I really do. I’m semi-successful, independent, confident, attractive, and mostly put together. I understand the confusion. The […]

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So You’re a Planner, Huh?

I used to crave the fulfillment of a plan. One that I strategically and logistically orchestrated whether for myself or for a group. I loved knowing what was coming. I loved not having to be surprised or anticipate anything unexpected. I didn’t just love it. I needed it. The way I lived and the walls […]

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